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GIRLFRIEND #21

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Girlfriend #21 shares a first name with the three famous women shown in the photos above and below. Girlfriend #21 worked as an administrator in the same department in which I worked at the University of Portsmouth, how many times have I opened with that line! Whenever I ventured into the office, I would often chat with girlfriend #21. She often did me favours like last-minute photocopying. She was an attractive married woman. She invariably came to watch me play football every week. We started to occasionally go out for lunch at a place far from our workplace and soon she started coming round to my house. We could never go out together in the evening because of her marriage situation. During our many conversations, it was clear that girlfriend #21 wasn't happily married. And, because I fancied her rotten, I suggested that she she should have an extramarital affair with me. I'm sure I put my proposition to her in cruder terms! Much to my surprise, she said she would think about...

GIRLFRIEND #31

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Girlfriend #31 shares a first name with the three famous women shown in the photos above and below. I met girlfriend #31 at work. She worked in the office on the undergraduate side of things while I worked on the postgraduate side. Work-wise our paths didn't cross but we were still required, by the university's code of conduct, to reveal our romantic/sexual relationship to our respective line managers. At work we always exchanged pleasantries. One day I was in the photocopying room and girlfriend #31 came in to also do some photocopying. While she waited we started chatting - we were the only ones in the room. The conversation got round to a newly released film, Control , about my favourite band Joy Division. She seemed interested in the film, so I asked whether she would like to see the film with me in the evening. She agreed. We met in a nearby bar, and after seeing the film, we retired to the same bar. After the bar closed, I asked girlfriend #31 back to my apartment for a n...

GIRLFRIEND #19

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Girlfriend #19 shares a first name with the three famous women shown in the photos above and below. Like girlfriend #20, I met girlfriend #19 at a drunken dinner party hosted by one of my best friends. However, unlike girlfriend #20, I didn't have sex with girlfriend #19 after dinner. I had known girlfriend #19 via my best friend for a couple of years beforehand. Though we got on okay, there was no spark between us. She was much younger than me and she seemed to like men who played rugby - I wasn't then and nor am I now a macho man. Conversation over dinner was good, and there were unexpected signs that girlfriend #19 was flirting with me. I didn't particularly reciprocate but noted her verbal advances towards me. My best friend's partner also noted her verbal advances, so much so that in the morning, with girlfriend #19 out of earshot, issue me a warning to stay clear of her as she is trouble. At breakfast, all four of us continued where we last left off at the previou...

GIRLFRIEND #22

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On Adult FriendFinder, I penned a regular series of blog posts about my girlfriends - 16 out of 31 girlfriends were covered there. A further five girlfriends - girlfriend #8 ( https://bowandarrowman. blogspot.com/2024/03/ girlfriend-8.html ), girlfriend #12 ( https://bowandarrowman. blogspot.com/2024/04/ girlfriend-12 ), girlfriend #15 ( https://bowandarrowman. blogspot.com/2024/04/ girlfriend-15.html ), girlfriend#23 ( https://bowandarrowman. blogspot.com/2024/04/ girlfriend-23.html ) and girlfriend #25 ( https://bowandarrowman. blogspot.com/2024/04/ girlfriend-25.html ) - have been so far covered here. Don't worry, there's only three more to go! Girlfriend #22 shares a first name with the three famous women shown in the photos above and below. Her first name is more common as a man's name. I met girlfriend #22 in a pub - where else?, there seems to be a theme going on. She was an information technology (IT) lecturer at the University of Portsmouth. With a few of her frien...

GIRLFRIEND #15

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On Adult FriendFinder, I penned a regular series of blog posts about my girlfriends - 16 out of 31 girlfriends were covered there. A further four girlfriends - girlfriend #8 ( https://bowandarrowman. blogspot.com/2024/03/ girlfriend-8.html ), girlfriend #12 ( https://bowandarrowman. blogspot.com/2024/04/ girlfriend-12 ), girlfriend#23 ( https://bowandarrowman. blogspot.com/2024/04/ girlfriend-23.html ) and girlfriend #25 ( https://bowandarrowman. blogspot.com/2024/04/ girlfriend-25.html ) - have been so far covered here. Girlfriend #15 shares a first name with the three famous women shown in the photos above and below. I met girlfriend #15 while I was working at the University of Portsmouth; I was a lecturer and she was a researcher. We didn't work together but she did share an office with one of my researchers so we gradually got to know each other during my very regular visits to their office. After one visit when my researcher wasn't around, I asked girlfriend #15 whether sh...

GIRLFRIEND #25

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On Adult FriendFinder, I penned a regular series of blog posts about my girlfriends, including two wives - 16 out of 31 were covered. A further three girlfriends - girlfriend #8 (see  https://bowandarrowman. blogspot.com/2024/03/ girlfriend-8.html ), girlfriend #12 (see   https://bowandarrowman. blogspot.com/2024/04/ girlfriend-12 ) and girlfriend#23 (see   https://bowandarrowman. blogspot.com/2024/04/ girlfriend-23.html ) - have been so far covered here. Girlfriend #25 shares a first name with the three famous women shown in the photos above and below. I met girlfriend #25 when she was a postgraduate student - she was an international student from Japan. After she graduated, we started to hang out a bit together. She was keen to prolong her stay in Britain and was thinking of doing a PhD here. She sought my advice on how to apply for a PhD place here. My advice, if funding has been secured which it was in her case, to find the academic who has the most expertise in the p...

GIRLFRIEND #12

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When on Adult FriendFinder, I penned a regular series of blog posts about my girlfriends - 16 out of 31 were covered. Following my blog post on girlfriend #8 (see  https://bowandarrowman. blogspot.com/2024/03/ girlfriend-8.html ) and girlfriend#23 (see   https://bowandarrowman. blogspot.com/2024/04/ girlfriend-23.html ), I'm going to continue this series further here. And I warn you now, this post is rather a long one even by my standards! Girlfriend #12 shares a first name with the three famous women shown in the photos above and below. I met girlfriend #12 when she worked in the administrative office in the university department I was working in as a lecturer. She was both incredibly sexy and very sassy. She often wore denim and she had frizzy hair, two big turn-ons for me. Slowly I befriended her, while flirting with her, and we went out for a drink after work a couple of times. Girlfriend #12 knew I fancied her rotten, not least because I told her. But she initially resist...

GIRLFRIEND #23

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When on Adult FriendFinder, I penned a regular series of blog posts about my girlfriends - 16 out of 31 were covered. Following my blog post on girlfriend #8 (see  https://bowandarrowman. blogspot.com/2024/03/ girlfriend-8.html ), I'm going to continue this series further here. Girlfriend #23 shares a first name with the three famous women shown in the photos above and below. I can't quite remember how I first met girlfriend #23 except that it would have been in a pub in Portsmouth. She was a psychology lecturer at the same university I was working for. Given two members of the football team, Inter Milldam, which I captained, were also her colleagues in the same department she worked in, it's probable I met her in the Wine Vaults pub where we would have a beer after a football game on Monday nights. We must have chatted and exchanged phone numbers. I don't know who phoned who, but our first date was in the same pub. I found her to be very interesting company. We had a l...

GIRLFRIEND #8

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When on Adult FriendFinder, I penned a regular series of blog posts about my girlfriends - 16 out of 31 were covered. I'm going to continue this series here not least just to feel a sense of normalcy. Don't worry I have no intention of blogging about all 31 girlfriends (including two wives). Girlfriend #8, and also wife #1, shares a first name with the three famous women shown in the photos above and below. I met girlfriend #8 when I was living in London. She was, and maybe still is, a friend of one of my school friends. I had moved into his flat in north London after living in a multiple-occupied house in the East End. My friend was gay. He quite reasonably liked to keep his gay life separate from straight me. Girlfriend #8 was a self-styled fag hag, a straight woman preferring the safe company of gay men than heterosexual men particularly in pubs and clubs. After a few months with my school friend and I getting on well in his flat, he said that one of his friends was moving i...